Grounding, by how fast it works
Start at the top. Move down only if you have the time and attention for it.
Within seconds
- Cold
- Cold water on the wrists or face, a cold drink against the palm, a metal object out of a pocket. Hard to ignore, which is the point.
- Texture
- Find something with a pattern and trace it slowly, in one direction. Slowness is the active ingredient. Rushed, it turns into fidgeting.
About half a minute
- Feet
- Press both feet flat into the floor and follow the weight down through your heels.
- Breath
- Make the out-breath longer than the in-breath. Four in, six out. Do not deepen either one: breathing harder tends to make it worse.
A minute or two
- 5-4-3-2-1
- Name five things you can see, four you can touch, three you hear, two you smell, one you taste. Slower to start than cold, but it holds better, because each step hands you the next one. If the order goes, any sense named slowly does most of the work.
Before you need it
- Practise
- Pick one and use it a few times a week while nothing is wrong. A technique you have only read about is not available to you once your thinking speeds up.
- Carry
- Reaching into a pocket is easier than recalling a sequence. Any small object with texture will do.